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## 5 Mediation Tips Every Professional Should Know *By Nhi Aronheim – Mediator, Speaker, Author of* *Soles of a Survivor* Conflict is inevitable—whether in the boardroom, across the kitchen table, or within your team. But how you manage it? That makes all the difference. As a professional mediator, I’ve seen how productive—even transformative—conflict resolution can be when approached with skill and empathy. Whether you’re a leader, a parent, or simply someone striving for better communication, here are five mediation tips that can help you navigate tension with confidence and grace. — ### 1. Listen to Understand—Not to Respond Most people listen just enough to prepare their counterargument. But true resolution begins when both parties feel heard. ✅ *Tip:* Use phrases like **“What I hear you saying is…”** to validate their perspective before offering your own. — ### 2. Neutrality Is Power—not Weakness Being neutral doesn’t mean being passive. It means staying curious, not taking sides, and guiding the conversation with intention. ✅ *Tip:* Ask open-ended questions like **“What would a fair outcome look like to you?”** — ### 3. Manage Emotions—Don’t Suppress Them Suppressing emotions can make conflict worse. Instead, acknowledge them without judgment. ✅ *Tip:* If things get heated, pause and say, **“Let’s take a breath and regroup so we can move forward productively.”** — ### 4. Focus on Interests, Not Positions People often argue over *positions* (“I want X!”), but lasting solutions come from understanding the *interests* behind those positions (“Because I need Y to feel secure.”) ✅ *Tip:* Dig deeper by asking, **“Why is this important to you?”** — ### 5. End with Agreements—Not Just Apologies Resolution isn’t just about saying sorry. It’s about finding mutual ground and setting clear agreements for the future. ✅ *Tip:* Summarize next steps and write them down, so everyone is clear and accountable. — ### 💬 Final Thought: Conflict doesn’t have to be something we fear. When approached with empathy and strategy, it can lead to stronger relationships, clearer communication, and powerful breakthroughs. Whether you’re resolving tension at work or at home, mediation skills are life skills. — ### 👉 Want more conflict resolution tools or need a speaker for your next event? Visit [www.MightyMediator.com](http://www.MightyMediator.com) or [contact me](https://www.mightymediator.com/contact). Let’s build a more compassionate, communicative world—one conversation at a time.